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Better yet? Low pressure. High comfort. This is where you build the emotional safety net required for the physical attraction to flourish. The Fourth Rule: Handle The "Friend Zone" Fear Here is a secret the skinny PUAs won't tell you. Many BBW are terrified you are just being nice because you feel sorry for them, or worse, that you want a secret fling.
Let’s cut the crap.
You must break the "secret lover" frame immediately. BBWPickup version
Stop Shrinking: The BBW Pickup Version Playbook for Real Connections Posted by: Coach Mike "The Realist"
Stop using the fat-phobic playbook. Throw away the cheap compliments. Be bold. Be warm. Be real. Better yet
Open with her energy, her smile, or the book she’s reading. Treat her like a person she actually is, not a category you’re checking off. The Second Rule: Own Your Preference (Without Being a Jerk) Here is the tightrope. You want to show you are attracted to her size without making it weird.
The audacity to walk up to a woman who society told to be quiet. The audacity to look her in the eye in a room full of judgment. The audacity to say, “I see you, and I want to know more.” This is where you build the emotional safety
“Look, I don't do secret dating. If we hit it off, I want to take you to my favorite taco spot on a Tuesday night where my friends will see us. You cool with that?”
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