Blood | And Water

One might try to convince you that you owe it everything. The other will remind you that love is not an obligation—it is a daily, living choice.

There is a fine line between forgiving someone and setting yourself on fire to keep them warm. And somewhere along that line, you have to ask yourself: Is this bond making me stronger, or is it slowly drowning me? Then there is the other side. The friends who become siblings. The mentors who become parents. The partners who show you what safety actually feels like. Blood and Water

It means the opposite of how we use it today. It means the bonds we choose —the covenants we make with friends, lovers, and found family—are actually stronger than the biological ties we were born into. One might try to convince you that you owe it everything

We are told to forgive because “they’re family.” We are told to stay quiet because “you only get one mother, one father, one brother.” We are told to absorb the hurt because loyalty is supposed to be unconditional. And somewhere along that line, you have to